Taking off the Behavioral Masks that Gifted Children Hide Behind – Ramblings of a Gifted Teacher

Sometimes it seems so simple to identify the gifted children in your classroom. They answer all the questions, they read very well, and can make friends very easy. Sometimes they are labeled “teacher pleasers” or the “teacher’s pet.” But there are those that don’t fit this mold or the stereotypical nerdy child you see in…
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Asking the Right Questions

All children ask “why?” Gifted children are more likely, though, to ask about things that have complex or multi-faceted answers.

It is a valuable lesson for parents to not be the single authoritative source of answers. Instead, ask for clarification about their question. For which detail are they really searching?

What resource can they use to find the answer? Go beyond Alexa or Siri. Is there a book, a website, or an experience that can teach them the “why?”

If kids want to know something procedural, like “why do I need to pick up my toys?” or “why do I have to go to bed?” Parents responses are often, “I said so!” After hundreds of “why” questions, mom is often too tired to explain one more reason.

Sometimes the best answer is a responding question. “That is a good question! Why do you think you should pick up your toys?” Let the child reason out the advantage to being able to walk without stepping on anything, keeping up with all the pieces to a puzzle or LEGO set, or being able to find it next time they want to play with it. When they express a good reason and you acknowledge it, (“Great idea! Let’s do it together!”) then the child is more likely to do it than if they feel like the only reason is that YOU want them to do it.

There are many good books to answer the scientific reasons for natural events. I recommend you read them together to discover the answers. The years of “why?” go by so fast. Take advantage of every day you get to spend with your inquisitive child. The interaction between you and your child develops their language skills. The “why?” questions are working on their prefrontal cortex, too. Keep building that brain!

Disciplining Smart Kids | Global #gtchat Powered by TAGT

43 participants and attendees from 22 states, D.C., and 5 countries joined us this week at Global #gtchat Powered by TAGT on Twitter to discuss disciplining smart kids! So often, discipline is confused with punishment which should not be the intent. Discipline should serve as a teachable moment. Gifted children know when others are trying…
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